Not so simple to see

Unfortunately, looking back afterwards I can totally see it now.  My logical brain is working and I am no longer in that vulnerable or insecure and lonely state I was drowning in two years ago.

I really hate the people who say how obvious the signs are.  Um, like, duh!  Those people aren’t emotionally invested with the inability to see outside of the ‘love’ developing.  I wasn’t in a good place and this individual knew it.

He went through his scripts and was involved with a team.  Their inconsistent conversations and inability to keep facts straight was what jolted me out of the fantasy that became an unending nightmare.

Intelligence doesn’t exist when the emotion mind takes over.  It’s not dumb people being taken advantage of alone.  Quite the contrary.  Attorneys, law enforcement officers, doctors, professors and everywhere in between.

From my experience, it appears that those not utilizing their emotional side very often due to professional requirements or avoidance in general are more susceptible to emotional manipulation.

Particularly if a person spends much of their time alone for whatever reason.  I prefer my alone time, as being around other people is energetically draining naturally.

Looking back at the evidence I collected from that troll, it is painfully obvious and rather embarrassing.  However, if you haven’t been in this situation, please don’t insult or harass those that have.

Believe me, we know what happened because we were there experiencing it.  Be grateful to not have gone through it and lost money.

I am no longer that same gal.  I pity the fool who attempts that with me again.  Lol!  I dealt with a narcissist scammer and have seen every script and storyline in their books.

Btw, I got on my scammers nerves deeply.  I pissed him/them off for months and their anger wasn’t on any of their scripts, lol! Oh boy!  It was fun.  Lol!

Their fake website finally got the axe, I see!  Buh bye willfaire constructions!


She wanted Money

I am kind, honest, hardworking. Just a cool guy to handle.

We knew each other for two months, but she started using that chance to making money from me, but when she realized I was after a relationship she never replied my messages.

Now its two years, she only insists I must deposit her cash so that we can proceed. I asked her to video call, she refused, about herself she said it was none of my business.

I invited her, she told me to send airticket, so I was totally confused to know which side to follow? I have now wasted time for nothing!


Scammed? Another Option


I am a UK professional, 52, who wanted to find a companion online. I was scammed twice by Asian ladies (my first choice as I spent time there many years ago) over a period of two years and was on the verge of giving up when a friend introduced me to a Philippine based company.

They have taken a different approach and protect the identity of both the men and women on the site. They also cater to the gay community although its not advertised.

You are sent profiles and based on your selection “dates” are set up for you in the Philippines. You have to travel over to meet your “picks”. They don’t allow any messaging or communication between their clients and members to protect both.

I picked four girls from the profiles they sent and landed in Manila two weeks later. I spent a glorious two weeks there and lo and behold, met the woman who now shares my life. A beautiful, intelligent English speaking Filipino.

There are other ways to do the online dating thing, people just need to be made aware. Be careful, be sensible and don’t let your online contacts pull at your heart strings or purse strings. If anyone wants to have a look at the site here is the address

Its not cheap, but actually, given the time and money I wasted over the two years online, it would actually have ended up saving me money had I gone there first. Maybe some of you are in the same position.

Good luck and I hope you find happiness out there.



I must be some sort of sucker, I must assume, as I honestly have been scammed twice on dating sites and these women talked to me for over a year.

Each time we are to meet something would always happen. I should have known and I guess I did but I didn’t want to believe it.

They make you fall for them so deeply it is amazing and l just couldnt let go.

One is still on my hangouts and she knows that I know she’s scamming me, but l really think she is into me but won’t admit to much even when I pressure her.

I say, it’s over and she keeps saying she misses me and wants to keep talking I won’t send any money as I did before, I know dumb, but so convincing, wow. So be careful.